Suffering In The Silence Of Apathy

Posted on 24 August, 2011 by Paul

Recently I was discussing several topics with a client and something came up. It was a realisation that they didn’t really care about the topics we were skimming over. Nothing seemed to spark with the client, everything we talked about seem to just drift and feel unimportant.

That’s when my client revealed something to me (and provided permission to reveal it on here too). Their partner had told them that they were stuck in apathy.  Read more of this article »

How to: Expand Your Comfort Zone

Posted on 29 April, 2011 by Paul

“You should expand your comfort zone”

Often when people first hear that phrase it strikes fear into them, that dreaded thought of moving out of their comfort zone. This is often because people think they need to do something something big and dramatic, and that quite frankly scares the life out of them. This simple is not true.

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There Is A Light At The End Of The Tunnel

Posted on 25 August, 2010 by Paul

Two people I know, quite independently, are going through the crappiest time right now. Both of them are under the threat of losing everything. Their homes being their main worry.

I wish I could tell them everything will be fine by the time they wake up tomorrow, but it won’t.

I wish I could ease their burden by taking away or fixing some significant part of their problems, but that’s just not possible.

I wish I knew exactly the right words to say: one magic phrase to help them through this. Sadly, I’m not magician. Read more of this article »

Comfort Zones

Posted on 20 March, 2009 by Chris, Paul

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Chris and Paul discuss comfort zones. What are they? Should you be in, out or expanding your comfort zone. What happens when you don’t push your comfort zone and what happens when you push too hard!