The Forgotten Purpose of Goals and New Year Resolutions
What is the point of making new year’s resolutions, intentions, or ambitions for you?
Are they to achieve something important? To acquire new accolades? Or simply to gain material things that add to the joy of life?
As an avid goal setter for 10 years now (…in fact, the date of my first entry in the notebook where I write my goals is January 2, 2002. Exactly ten years ago), I’ve set my share of grand ambitions and planned for smaller pleasures.
I’ve covered the range from traveling to far away places, experiencing some of the world’s most fascinating events, and learning new skills to advance my career, health, finances and relationships.
When I look back on my list, there is a strong theme of ‘accomplishment’. I wanted to accomplish things and experience stuff and by-and-large, I did just that.
Yet along my journey my perspective has changed.
I’m in a much different place in my life now than I was ten years ago, let alone 3 years ago when I was a marketing career man working 50-60hrs a week while trying to do it all. However, I’m still as ambitious as ever and my list of goals continues to grow.
But I’ve realised there is a more important purpose to my plans.
I believe there is a very important ingredient to successfully achieving your dreams that is usually forgotten and often unknown. And that is this:
We don’t set goals for what they give us, we set goals in order to become the person we need to become in order to live the life that we want.
You might want to read that statement again.
Who do you need to become this year to achieve your goals?
- A person of stronger faith and conviction for what you believe in?
- A person of deeper courage to face your challenges and succeed?
- A person with a bigger purpose and daily motivation to blast through any setbacks and barriers?
- A person that inspires others to raise their standards?
- A leader by example and a person of your word?
For all of your exciting or scary plans for the year ahead, I encourage you to add this dimension to your plan of attack.
If you haven’t written down your goals for 2012 yet, then do so this week.
And along side those goals, try to identify who you would need to become in order for that to become a reality. What part of your inborn courage, strength, love, compassion, resiliency, enthusiasm, creativity and ambition needs to shine? What elements of your personality need to drive your decisions and actions? What inside of you needs to determine your daily behaviour?
Who will you become in 2012?
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